Question Posted Saturday November 16 2013, 4:06 pm
alright so i know this question might be a little immasure and a little dumb, but i always get this feeling that im pregnant, i get scared, nervous and stress... it has happens a lot and im honestly tired. so yesterday i was over my boyfriends house and we were making out, things got a little bit hot and he had an erection, he got on top on me and his penis was touching my vagina for an amount of 10-15 seconds the most (maybe less) of course i was wearing clothe, he was wearing boxers and jean like pants, just a tiny bit thinner than jeans, like school pants. and i was wearing leggings, shorts(n0t jean shorts)incase my leggings were to thin so my underwear wont show and my underwear. i know about pre-cum and that it comes out, and that you cant get pregnant if sperm makes direct contact with virginal fluid and penetration. anyways i decided to touch his pants and i felt a cold spot, i checked and it appeared to be something like a small drop of water but then there was nothing there.then he decided to check his boxers and there was nothing there, when he pulled the skin of his private part back, a clear thing came out(pre`cum)of his penis.(the whole. not the side of his penis) but only when he was pulling it back(it happen twice.... I've been told not sure of its right, the whiter your semen is the more sperm it contains........ well is it possible that i can get pregnant with clothe on, and can you please give me advice on how i can stop this thought.( please dont say yes just to get me scare or just to say it, theres people who do that) its really sad how this issue takes a huge amount of my life, and im going cray if i keep stressing it.
Other than that, I'm going to advise you to not do this stuff with your boyfriend until you learn everything you can about sex and pregnancy.
Better than that, you should get on birth control. This kind of stuff can eventually lead to sex and you obviously don't want to get pregnant. This kind of stuff does and can escalate into more so you need to be careful and it doesn't seem like you know very much about this subject.
adviceman49 answered Sunday November 17 2013, 9:58 am: While anything is possible it is highly unlikely that a sperm could swim through all that clothing and reach your vagina and still make the swim to impregnate you if you were fertile. What you are feeling is stress over the possibility.
If you continue to stress out over this I can almost guarantee you will miss your period. Stress is the number 1 reason women miss their periods, both teenagers and adult women, followed of course by being pregnant. Most girls like you though miss their periods do to stress more than being pregnant.
I should tell you to stop whatever it is you and your BF are doing. I won't as it would be hypocritical of almost all adult to say that as we were young once ourselves. In the future if your BF and you are going to continue to dry hump, which is what you are doing, then make sure he keeps his penis on your leg well down on your thigh away from your vagina.
While it is about impossible for sperm to swim through the amount of clothing you two had on; the next time you may have less clothing on. If you follow my advice and he does ejaculate or emit some precum it is on your thigh well away from your vagina. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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