thanks natalka about advising me on my recent post .you are right she is manupilative .how can I beat her in to her own game .please don't ask me why , I guess you know that .tell me how to proceed
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Natalka16 answered Saturday October 26 2013, 9:34 am: You could play a manipulative game yourself. It is risky but it may work. You mentioned that your wife's best friend has a husband. How about trying to be friends with him. Tell him that he shouldn't be treated by his wife like he is-that she doesn't deserve him (cheated on him like you've said). Basically get her husband behaving differently to make your wife's friend realize that she's messing up her life. When she realizes then she will have to concentrate more on her marriage. If you make her husband leave her (not for real-a pretend leave) then if she loves him she'll fight for him. This will hopefully teach her a lesson and light a new perspective on her life. If she however will not fight for the relationship you could tell you wife that her friend broke up a marriage-that she's not mature and if wasn't ready/didn't want to get married she should have left the poor guy alone.
That is risky though as being manipulative isn't as easy as it sounds. It takes years of practice to master its art/true colors. But that's what I'd do if I was in your shoes. [ Natalka16's advice column | Ask Natalka16 A Question ]
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