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My freedom is taken away.I am isolated from my friends.I am locked up in my room.


Question Posted Friday October 18 2013, 10:25 am

I am from Bangladesh.I am 14.I belong to a broken family.I lost my mother in 2006.My father remarried.Since then I had been the victim of many tortures and injustices.But I had been extraordinary
in my studies as well in music and sports.But they were never satisfied.Recently I had been the victim of some inhuman tortures to my father on some false claims.My freedom is taken away.I am isolated from my friends.I am locked up in my room.I feel really sad,depressed and lonely and helpless.Yesterday was my birthday but wished me! I had been the victim of both physical and mental tortures.Now I feel like dying.What should I do? Should I kill myself?Or what?How do I pacify myself?


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Dragonflymagic answered Friday October 18 2013, 6:57 pm:
Physical and mental abuse of another human is not acceptable,like them no matter what country in the world people live in and no matter what a person supposedly did that the abuser is using as an excuse saying they deserved it. Even criminals convicted of crimes are not abused, they are sent to prison.
Since you are under age to be legally on your own, you will need help from some agencys that protect children and females from abuse. I assume there must be something like that in your country. In the U.S. we have Child Protective Services, and they will remove a child from a home where they are being abused but they have to have some proof before they can do so.
Are you locked in your room, all day and all night, never allowed to leave? What about school? Are you allowed to go to school? If so, then you must speak to school authorities about your problems at home. Nothing is worth giving up and dying over. I am sorry to hear about your situation. Parents sometimes are immature souls who are doing a terrible job of learning and improving in their current lifetime and that is hard on children. Some times, in some ways a child is more stable and mature and loving than their own parents. Don't let their treatment of you make you decide to cut your life short for then the world will be robbed of a sweet person who may have made wonderful differences in the lives of those they meet once they are adult.
Find a way to ask for help. If you have computer access to write here, then try to use the computer to search for help agencies also in your city and country who are better equipped to help you and know the laws of the area.
Best wishes for you dear.

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