PJC19 answered Monday October 14 2013, 5:03 pm: From personal experience, my hymen did not break with the first person I was with. But because I had been with someone, I was no longer a virgin. I hope this helps.
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Dragonflymagic answered Saturday October 12 2013, 2:07 pm: Virginity is totally antiquated term, it is a social construct created many many years ago by men and for men during ages when there was no such thing as birth control to prevent pregnancy, when a daughter who had not yet had a man, fetched more money for dad in sale as property to her husband, and in a misguided, non scientifically accurate way to prove father hood to any child. If a woman bled during sex first time with husband, she was considered a virgin, if not she was considered to have had sex before her marriage, whether true or not and women are still killed for that around the world today. Not all womens hymen will broke during sex the first time and not produce the couple spots of blood. If a man was careful and went slow enough, not one woman would ever have a ripped hymen and therefore, no blood. The issue was all about heirs, and pregnancy, not about remaining pure for the one you marry. Watch this video for some more eye opening thoughts.
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