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I'm In Love With A Girl...
I'm a girl, 17, set on suicide when i'm 19 (or 24, still haven't decided, and now there's this girl in my life, who i think i love, who i would consider living for, but i'm scared that going after her would just make me feel more suicidal. I never knew i was Les, and most people go against it, but Demi Lovato made me accept and mostly find who i am, and Hanna has made me feel wanted, loved and hates that i am suicidal. Hanna's the one i am in love with because she's the only one who's showed me love in a long time. I just need to know whether i should go on with my original plan, or stay and tell her how i feel, would it help me?
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Ok I'm gonna address two different things.
Firstly, your suicidal thoughts and plans. Obviously, many people go through this. You're not alone. You need to talk to someone about this. Like a counselor or therapist. I have no idea why you want to commit suicide. I don't know if it's simply because you are unhappy with life in general or if there is something specific going on. But, there are ways to get through whatever is going on and if it's a problem that can't be solved, you'll learn how to deal with problems that come into your life.
Secondly, you should not get into a relationship when you have things like this going on.
I recently gave advice to one girl who talked about how her boyfriend was her only reason to live. It's a terrible way to live.
You want to live for yourself, not for someone else. People come and go and if something went wrong with the two of you, you'd end up throwing in the towel and ultimately, she'll feel like she's the one to blame.
Also, she's knows that you're suicidal. You don't want her to get with you just for that reason. She might feel too afraid to break your heart and would be with you for the wrong reasons.
So the best thing to do is get help. She sounds like a great friend. I'm sure she'll support you along the way. Once you get better, maybe then you can pursue her. It's a nice thing to keep in mind.
Even if things just didn't work out between you guys, you might meet someone new. So keep that in mind.
Just please, go seek help and everything will gradually get better.
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