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Need to know why women can say a man did something and he go to jail for it
I have just been abandoned by a woman of which I spent 17 years with. She was diagnosed as having bi-polar disease. I did not have much experience with women prior to meeting this woman. I did not know what really to expect from a relationship with a woman, so much of her behavior I assumed was just how women were, moody etc... but now in hind sight I have found that she was lying, cheating and mentally abusive to me and made me believe that I was the one that was making her be the way she was, called me a trigger. Well I have since read up on bi-polar and the symptoms etc. and have found that they can have manic episodes for months, even up to a year or more. Well, during one of her episodes she decided to set me up for an argument, gets her girlfriend to call the police and the next thing I know I am in jail and two years after frighting the case and even after she testified on my behalf saying that what she had stated earlier was not true and that she was under heavy meds etc but still I was given a 1 year sentence and a violent felony conviction. She ruined my life, found out that she had cheated on me the whole time she was with me, took our son and left the state and I cannot do a dam thing about it cause I have no money for a lawyer, and the courts will more than likely I am told give full custody to her. My question again is WHY! What the hell is going on with our judicial system where equal rights are not for men when women are involved. She is certified mentally disabled and she lived with 20 cats, get the house so filthy that you could not even breath, and the social worker found no problem with this? Please, someone tell me that I am in and alternate universe, the bad one, because I cannot believe that no one seems to care about how women have become above suspect and reproach. What of the mental anguish of the man in these cases! What is going on here?
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That unfortunately is the world we live in today. There is no justice. Morality is very twisted, and common sense is not common anymore. Humans raised today have little to no consciounce. The golden rule is not part of peoples core values.
Ever notice how as time goes on that there are more people in todays time with mental issues, on depression meds, etc.. than in decades past?
When I was in grade school through highschool, I never knew of any kids with ADHD let alone ones with mental problems or depressed. I am sure there were a few but there was no autism like we know it today. Maybe one kid in my time. Now its an epidemic. I can't help but think that there are toxins and other stuff that affect the normal brain growth of children today because the problems are so widespread. My ex had mental issues, verbally abusive and I left after 30 years with him. I have one daughter on depression meds. When dating before I met my 2nd husband, I came across quite a few guys who seemed nice at first but relaxed soon and showed the real them...which was one of the mental illnesses, bi-polar, or controlling and narcissistic., etc.
All we can do is pray for Gods grace to get us through every day.
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