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my mom is holding a grudge against my dad's side of the family


Question Posted Saturday September 7 2013, 1:23 pm

It seems that things are getting back to way they use to be between me and my dad's side of the family . I just wish my mom could understand that I want them in my life because they have changed and I love them because they are my family even though my dad died when I was 12 I still want them in my life but she doesn't seem to think that they have changed she says that they are going to hurt me again.

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Razhie answered Sunday September 8 2013, 11:51 am:
You are both right.

It's right and fair to want them in your life.
It's quite possible that they might hurt you, or your mother, in some way in the future.

The best thing you can do is let your mother know that you are choosing to take that risk, and respect the fact she isn't willing to.

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