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How can you tell if your wife wants to be with two men at once?
will wife give sign she wants two cocks at same time
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No she will not. There are some fantasies a woman may have that she truly does not want to experience in real life, just in her mind for the naughty or excitement factor.
So she won't mention them but she is doing fine on her own just using the mental images for her purposes. There's a big trust issue when it comes to other people. Women aren't as much into experiencing this as men. Take it from someone who's been in the swinger clubs in the past, some men who thought they could handle it because in their minds, the scenerio of their wife with another would excite them, I know of many men who couldn't handle it in real life and actually got jealous. Imagine your wife making sounds with another guy that she's never made with you? (Actually thats very normal, different guys, different responses in the female) Or just the look on her face or how her body reacts in orgasm just doesnt quite compare to what you two have together. And there you have it, you start comparing which is not advised, and then you become jealous thinking that she enjoyed the other guy better!! The majority of people can not handle the emotional pressure this may bring them.
So it is best to keep this fantasy in your mind.
If I were you, i would work on my communication on the topic of sex just between you two, so that you both become more comfortable discussing it and it feels normal and natural. Focus on learning more from her as to how she wants you to please her. If both of you can be frank with each other and discuss anything sexual without feeling threatened or nervous, then if there is something she really wants to do in real life sexually, she will bring it up. I did a survey of couples in swing club to find out how they started going to such a place. I was shocked to find out that with 3/4 of the couples, the female was the one who brought it up. Keep in mind though that out in average society, only 1 out of every 200 people is a swinger or will become one. So your chances of your wife approaching you someday to ask for another man for a triage, is practically nil.
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From what I have seen this is more of a mans fantasy then a woman's fantasy. The same goes with a wife having sex with another man while the husband watches or a three way with another woman or another man.
When it comes to sex my advice is to communicate with your partner. There is nothing off limits, kinky or weird that two people can do together sexually as long as no one is hurt, more than they wish to be (BDSM), and that they are both in agreement to try something.
Being in agreement means that you are both open and wanting to do so. It does not mean one partner begging the other until the other partner reluctantly gives in. It also means that at any point if one partner says stop, you stop right there no matter what and no means no.
When two people can openly discuss anything, including sex, you have the workings of a good marriage. I know for I have been married for 42 years.
When it comes to sex and making fantasies into realities you both have to feel really secure with each other and your marriage. For some times the fantasy when made into a reality is not the pleasure you thought it might be. Seeing your lover enjoying someone else can turn into a downer quickly and spoil an otherwise great relationship.
A Short answer is I don't think you will see signs of what you're looking for. Sure maybe your wife will like watching porno of this type. But watching and doing are two different things.
So my suggestion is you get a good bottle of wine. Turn off the TV, dim the lights and have a conversation about your sex life and where each of you would like to take it. What fantasies you each may have an if they should remain fantasies or if you would BOTH like to try and bring them to reality.
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