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Don't have my period, have popped my cherry but still bleeding
Ok so firstly I am a 17/f and a virgin. I was going out with a guy 9 months ago and he broke my hymen because he fingered me with 3 fingers but there was never any blood and it was never uncomfortable. So recently I was started going out with a new guy and I haven't done anything since the old guy (9 months ago). But when he fingered me (1/2 fingers) for the first time I instantly started bleeding. I freaked out and found it so embarrassing because it was bleeding a lot. It bled for 3 days. A few weeks later I got my actual period and it really hurt! A lot more than normal! So I decided to just ignore it. Then after my period was over and everything seemed ok we tried again and the same thing happened but worse. Please help me! I don't know what is wrong?! And its really starting to hurt!!
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I really think that either this guy is doing something wrong or you need to see a doctor.
The hymen doesn't "break", it stretches. It can tear but that's probably because the guy is too rough or you're too dry.
So if he's going at a fine pace, then you should see a doctor. If he's being too rough or you notice that you're too dry, then you guys need to fix that.
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I will go out on a limb and say you didn't brake your hymen the first time. And I will also say you may need to go see a gynecologist to make sure everything is right. I know for a fact bleeding vary's between person to person. Though a gyno is you're best bet. Hope I helped
Lillian Garvin
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This is one of those questions that requires a doctor to examine you to find out what has happened. None of us are doctors and we cannot examine you over the web if we were doctors.
I do not believe there is anything seriously wrong. The most common problem with loss of virginity is the Hymen is not fully ruptured. When this happens continued penetration causes continued injury to the interior of your vagina.
I'm only guessing this is the problem. Since you have not been fully penetrated by a penis, in sexual intercourse, which would most likely dislodged your Hymen fully I would think this is the problem.
You need to see a gynecologist. After examination if I'm correct the GYN will remove the remaining Hymen and repair any damage that may have been done.
If you're concerned about mom finding out, don't be. Since you turned 14 you have had, by federal law called HIPPA, complete medical confidentiality and privacy relating to your reproductive system. This means, mom or anyone else for that matter, can no longer be told anything about your reproductive health without your written consent to the doctor.
Mom cannot be in the exam room with you during any examination that includes a female exam. None of your doctors can discuss what you're examined for, what you may have been treated for and any prescriptions written for you including birth control. You do not need parental permission to ask for or receive birth control medication. All you need do is tell your doctor you invoke your rights under HIPPA.
The fact that your parents health insurance is paying for these visits does not override your right to medical privacy concerning your reproductive health. This HIPPA Law has stood the test of the U.S. Supreme Court so even a court order cannot be obtained to view your medical records without just cause and being a parent is not just cause.
The reason for this portion of the law was not to give young people license to have sex. It was written so that young people would seek out medical help for problems, such as you have written about, when they were too embarrassed or afraid to go to their parents.
By law you may make an appoint to see a doctor and visit with that doctor without parental permission for anything related to your reproductive system. When you turn 18 your parents or anyone else will no longer have access to any medical information as you will then be an adult. To gain access to your medical information now and in the future requires written permission to your doctor by you. Also you pharmacist may not divulge any prescriptions your GYN writes to your parents without your permission.
My advice is to see your GYN. IF you do not have one you can go to any of your choice or any woman's clinic.
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