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sex
does sex hart? Is sex fun?
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As long as there is enough lubrication, it shouldn't hurt. There might be some stretching, and as a result, there might be some blood. But it doesn't hurt every time.
And if you're doing it with the right person, yes. It can be very fun :)
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Are you really 17?
Yes sex is fun when the time is right and with the right person. The right person is not some pimple faced teenager who confuses lust with love as most teenage boys do.
The right person is some one who loves you and respects you as a women, not as a receptacle for his hormones. The right person is someone who you have had a long term relationship who has proven his love for you. Not someone who says; "IF you love me you will have sex with me." Sex is not away to prove your love for someone, it is the natural result of your love for someone.
The person who says you must prove your love for them by having sex with them does not love you, they lust for you. There is a big difference there one of which is respect; which is missing. Don't have sex to prove your love for someone for then it will not be fun and you will forever regret having sex with them.
As for hurting. For some females it does hurt the first time they have sex but after that it does not. For others there is no pain at all the first time. The older you are when you have sex for the first time the less painful it will be as your body will have matured and be ready for sex.
It also helps if you have chosen the right person. The person that wants to make love to you rather than just have sex with you will make sure your first time is a memorable experience. He will see to your comfort and security in where you make love. Comfort and security is most important especially for you as fear of discovery can make sex even after the first time uncomfortable an no fun for you.
There is an old saying about guys and sex. A guy can get off anywhere any time. Give him a board with a knot hole in it and he can get off. It is not so for a women, she need to feel secure and comfortable. Most of all she needs to feel love and respected.
Chose your first partner wisely and your first sexual experience will be memorable. There is no reason to rush. You have a lifetime to enjoy a sex life make sure it is with the right person or it will be a chore rather than a pleasure.
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