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my ex who i have been with and have a daughter together
has just left without even giving me a hint or not even talked about it she just left i been trying to contact her with no success i love her so much we kinda broke up late last year she ended it but im still in love with her and have been broken hearted ever since ive heard rumours shes ben seen with another guy but i dont know if thats true what do i do?
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Hey there!
Have you asked her about the rumors? Rumors are usually either made up, or fabrications of the truth, twisted around by people who like to gossip and/or start drama. If you haven't asked her about them, I wouldn't believe anything I've heard. Give her the benefit of the doubt.
If you have asked her about it, but she's avoided the questions, then there's probably something fishy going on. If you've asked her and she's denied the rumors, give her the benefit of the doubt and just try and move forward with the relationship.
That brings me to another question. You say she's just left, but that she broke up with you a year ago? If she broke up with you, then you need to try and move on if there isn't any hope of getting back together. Just because you have a daughter together, doesn't mean you have to be miserable, heartbroken and hanging on your ex's every word.
If she's telling you she isn't seeing anyone, and spending time at your place, then disappearing without a word, you need to confront her. Let her know that you need to know whether or not the two of you are going to give things another shot or not. Tell her it isn't okay that she strings you along and leaves you wondering and heartbroken.
If she doesn't want to be with you, as much as it seems to suck right now, it's probably for the best. Either way she still needs to know that she can't just up and disappear with your daughter. Technically, that's kidnapping and you could actually call the police on her for that.
Just lay it out on the table for her. Either we're giving this a shot, neither of you will see anyone else, and there's no disappearing allowed, or you aren't together and what the two of you do in your own lives isn't any of the others business. But, you both need to be in your daughter's life and you need to be civil about it.
Remember that no matter how you're feeling, you have a little girl who's feeling lost and confused, too.
Good luck and may God bless you three!
xoxo
MissAshlee
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