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recovering alcoholic calling me c,,, for looking on his phone
Hi Joe,
I have been with a 52yr old man who got a dwi 2 yrs ago we have been together for almost 3. he went to terrific rehab after i told him i would not be a part of that kind of life..he has not drank in 2yrs. he is overpowering to my personality and has called me the c word and did a few mean things to me while he drank. well he is now sober and recently got mad because he felt i betrayed his trust by viewing his phone( i confessed) he moved out and said i would never see him again after cursing me spitting in my face (a little spit as he says) called me c... again,slut and this last word while he was on the phone with his ex-wife, said i was fat....then hours later called me crying that he had no where to go and he was sorry and loved me but i made him mad and. we have also had disagreements about the amount of sex we have. he wants it every day and will wake me up for it early early in the a.m. so i was resenting it and got mad. so i would like your opinion a mans. we have gone to two council sessions and he says he never stopped loving me (he is in every other way a great guy to me) what do i do...my gut is confused do i love him i am not so sure. i have a habit of putting up concrete walls.
thank you,
db
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I am very sorry to say this, but only you know if he is the right guy for you and if you really do love him. I have known other guys that are way worst then him, but that doesn't mean he could go around insulting you. Everyone does deserve a second chance, but he may be staying with you because he has no where else to go. Make sure you know he loves you, not by his words but action and when you find out then you could make the right choice and figure out if you
love him or not.
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