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who am I?
hey drew .Iam a 15 year old girl from South Africa...I am not sure about who i am because i change at times .i have days when i feel great about myself than some days i hate myself.i usualy feel like i am a nobody and i just am not loved..i sometimes cry for nothing and even think iam useless expecially when i dont do quite well in a test at school or exam at school...what do you think is wrong with me and how can i fix this..please help
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I'm glad you contacted me.
I think that you should talk to someone close to you like a friend or a family member. Alot of people feel like this sometimes.
I know I've had my moments when I just felt like some of the people I called my friends never really liked me. And believe me I've failed numerous tests. But you want to know what keeps me going?
Sure I may not be liked by some people but that's how the world is. Everybody won't like. But someone who I can rely on to always be there is God.
GOD LOVES YOU because his love is UNCONDITIONAL. There has never been a time where God made me feel useless. God made us in his own image, therefore we are like him a little bit.
Now I know you said that you have failed tests in school. Well if you want to pass the test, then you need to put forth the work and study for the test. I have to retake a class because I never studied. And a test DOES NOT DETERMINE WHO YOU ARE! Nothing can make you feel useless except for yourself. So what if someone says they hate you! You HAVE THE CHOICE to let that bother you or not. But no one can make you hate yourself except for you.
You have to wake up every morning not just knowing, but BELIEVING that you are LOVED by GOD who will NEVER stop loving you. If you don't know about God and Jesus Christ I encourage you to find out about them.
What I'm trying to say is...
if you don't want to feel worthless, look at yourself in the mirror and say, "I am not worthless. No one can make me feel worthless because I am worth something to God." But in order for your words to be true you must believe them in your heart.
You must know that you are valuable in your heart and in your head.
I hope this helps. If you ever need any advice in the future or if I didn't really help you, just send me an email and let me know.
~Andrew~
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