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An Ex
I had a child really young. The father and I didnt get along after the baby was born he wanted to go out (which is understandable) I grew up. I ended up moving 12 hours away. I dated he dated. I ended up married. We always keep in contact (obviously because we have a child together) we always would talk about old feelings and that we still loved each other. Talk about the fun we had. My husband and I split recently. Our marriage was pretty bad we just stayed together for the children. When we did separated, I have absolutely no feelings for him I dont miss him at all. I moved back I have two kids. My ex has a girlfriend. and if I started a relationship id want it to go slow. Long story short I think I love my ex. Like love love. I think about him all the time he texts me all the time. his current relationship has been 4 years but mainly off. Im moving again two hours away because my father lives two hours away and my husband took my car and all my money and I have no support system where i am no place to live long term until i get a place. thats my story now i need advice on it thank you.
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So have a talk with your ex. Having a girlfriend that a guy dates from time to time and loving her to the extent that his heart and mind have made a commitment to her are two very different things.
Ask him how he feels about his girfriend. Or ask him where does he see that relationship as being in 5 years from now or 10 years from now. If he asks why you care, then you can tell him how you feel. Perhaps he has finally matured and grown up and could make a good partner and a good atep dad for kid #2. You will never know unless you give it a try. Hopefully he's of the mind to give it a try too. And afterall if it works, he's the father of one of the two. That sounds like a pretty good deal if he is ready to settle down and is in love with you. not just loves you as a person but his heart can't bear not being with you. It could be why he hasn't been successful with the other lady for the last 4 years.
Not trying to get your hopes up but if I were in your shoes, and I didn't give it a try, the what ifs would haunt me the rest of my life. At least your mind would be at rest if it does not turn out and you will feel free to move on and find another man.
Blessings dear!
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