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Tell me what can I do with my friendship
So I ask my friend a question..and she answered it wrong...she really acts like she know it all.. She answered me quickly without thinking. And she said, "you tricked me". It was really an easy question like 15 minus 12~ so I said it is a revenge* ... Now she told me stuffs that I didn't said or did. And she got mad bcoz of what she said I did which is really did not do. After few days not replying her because it was tupid and I got angry.. She texted me it was just for fun and it was revenge.... We fight over that, because I think what she did wasn't right or fair~ she didn't apologize and she talks to me I was the wrong one.. Sorry for making it too long..just a summarization :) thanks and please tell me what should I do to make it better..
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Two females whose bodies are still going through hormonal changes and the effects that has on their emotions is likely what is at the core of your problems, not to mention your age.
You are still in the process of maturing. I thought things out differently when I was your age too. It's just the way it is. I had to choose to control my emotions, and curb my temper. Until it is brought to our attention and we realize its not so much the person making us irritated or angry but something going on internally in us, it is hard to deal with it.
This is normal and this stage will eventually pass. If it isn't female friends you clash with at this stage, it will be sisters. I have 3 daughters and watched them all go through it with each other. But knowing why is half the solution...makes you try harder to control yourself. Have a talk with your friend and let her know you understand its not her fault or yours and see if you can get her to agree to nicely say you need some time out or ask to drop the subject or convo. when you feel you are about to lose control. Some measures like this should make it a little easier to navigate through this time.
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