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Girlfriend is Late


Question Posted Sunday July 21 2013, 6:53 pm

17/m


My girlfriend and I had sex twice. She was a virgin and I wasn't.

I am almost 100% the condoms didn't break or anything but she is now 2 days past when she was suppose to get her period and she is worried and getting more worried.

I know girls can be kinda late or early but since I am not a woman I don't have any idea on this stuff.

What could be going on? Should she be worrying?

Any info is helpful


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Dragonflymagic answered Monday July 22 2013, 5:20 pm:
If she is so worried, and she is 17,then she can purchase Plan B, tne morning after pill if it is still within 72 hours after sex.
The very fact that she worries and wonders if the condom wasn't enough is enough stress to compound the issue and make her even later on her period due to the stress of worrying. Do you best to keep her calm and take a pregnancy test later. Read the instructions on the packages. It will tell her when its too early to register any response yet.

If the two of you are going to continue being sexually active, she needs to go to Planned Parenthood for something more trustworthy so she doesnt freak out every time after you two have sex.
It's more carefree. If she is terrible about remembering to take a pill consistently, then she may want to go for the shot or an IUD. But that way she'll be able to relax.

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ASK-LACEY answered Monday July 22 2013, 8:15 am:
Wait a week before worrying...Also, a lot of girls are late on their periods because of stress...After a week if she still hasn't started her period you need to get her a pregnancy test. Technically you're supposed to wait 2 weeks till after sex to take a test, but some tests you can take 1 week after. Always use protection and just know that just because you're wearing a condom, doesn't mean she can't get pregnant. I'm living proof of that. It happens sometimes. Sit down and talk to your girlfriend and talk to her and sooth her and just let her know that everything will be okay no matter what. Pray about it as well. I hope I was able to help you a little bit. Ask me anything if you have anymore questions and good luck.
Sincerely, ASK-LACEY

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ilovevoolleyball548 answered Monday July 22 2013, 2:20 am:
I'm a female!
And it's nothing to worry about. If you do use protection great keep doing so, it's perfectly natural for a period to be late or to be early. When I had sex a couple times I was a week late and we did use a condom! It can just be from having sex, it causes a change in our bodies. It's really nothing to worry about, as long as you guys keep using protection! Just be safer talk to her about getting birth control if she's not using it already.

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