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i want to do stuff with me bf but i don't know if i'm too young?


Question Posted Sunday July 21 2013, 6:36 pm

hi i'm 14 nearly 15 (girl btw), i've been with my bf for two months. i really like him and trust him with anything,we were good friends before we started dating an he knows everything about me and has even seen me in just my underwear. last week we met after school and went for a walk in the woods, we sat down for a while and cuddled, we started making out and he fingered me and i tossed him off... i feel like i am ready to go further than that but i don't know if i'm too young or not, do you think i am too young?
thanks x


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Spirit answered Tuesday July 23 2013, 9:07 am:
First, congratulations. You are with someone you like and have been friends with and more importantly who knows you in and out and has that level of understanding with you.

Now,another fact. Guys are horny and they will try to take it to the next level when they get a chance. Especially if you are the girlfriend. Now, if you feel like it's wrong, or if your guts say it's wrong and alarm you when that kind of situation occurs. Don't let him do it. But, at the same time, he should know it's not because you don't like HIM doing these things, it's because you think it's not the right time or the right stage to take it to the next level.

Best solution will be to talk it out. Tell him how you feel. If he understands you which I think he will, woah! you have struck the gold mine! It's great and go ahead and date him further.

If he says give it a shot or tries to force you into it or something to that effect, he's not worth your love or time

Either way, just go ahead communicate and be open about your feelings. tell him!!

Good luck!

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