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turn on for guys about virgins
is it really a turn on for a guy to know that you keep your legs closed
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What is the turn on for guys about virgins?
This is somewhat of a complex question as it differs somewhat between guys. Some guys just like the idea of being the first. It also means the girl has no one to compare them too so he has less performance anxiety with a virgin.
For many other guys it is the thrill of the chase. When I was younger and I'm sure it still goes on to day. Groups of boys had a point system for how many times they had sex. Sex with a virgin scored more points. In this scenario the turn on was and is the thrill of the chase.
After the thrill of chasing a virgin comes the fetish thrill. Most fetishes are harmless. Some guys love women who wear stockings, not pantyhose. Some guys have foot fetishes, some like older women, some like having sex in places where they might be seen. As I said most if not all are harmless.
What is important is that indulging in a fetish has to be mutually agreeable. This means if he wants to do it in a boat on a lake and you don't want to; then it is not done. The same with any type of sex or sexual position. If one partner says no then it is not done. Any begging, threatening or any other thing done to convince the partner to comply is sexual harassment.
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Every guy is different as to what turns him on. Some younger guys are turned on only by seeing older females, way older. Some prefer huge boobs, others like thin, some want overweight women, some are turned on by viewing womens feet and the list goes on. If you are the female, and a guy wants you to be a certain way to turn him on, tell him to go find the gal who is already like that.
Don't ever change who you are to take care of a guys sexual fantasies and turn ons if it is not you or something you are comfortable with.
If you are the guy, wanna know what is just as important as what turns you personally on? Its what turns on the female. Young guys want to rush in like a bull in a china closet and boop...quick its over. She is not satified. If you are the guy, do your research now online. Learn about clitoral stimulation by finger or tongue, and also g-spot orgasms. I checked the other day, and there is enough on line for you to view to even learn kissing 101. If a guy can learn how to take his time with and learn how to give mind blowing orgasms to a girl, she won't want anyone but you and the reputation will go around and guy will come to you asking you what you do so they can please females too.
that is more important than whether her legs are closed or not.
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Yes. Very
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