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I don't know about this guy
I met this guy and he's really cute and funny and nice when he wants to be. And he started acting like maybe he could be interested or just interested in a hit it and quit it. Well we drank together a few times and he was flirting and brought up kissing me and if I'd kiss him back and I said why did he want to kiss me and he said cause he thought I liked him. And I played it off by saying no I don't like you why would you tjink I like you and stuff then he all of a sudden got tired and went and layed down being in a position of a guy having a fit I thought I'd go appologize. Well I ended up saying I did like him I just don't want to have feelings if he only wants sex cause that will screw everything up and he said it wasn't his top priority if it happens it happens and we just continued talking bout that kinda stuff then we kissed a bit. We layed down to go to sleep and then he left. I guess he had a panic attack and started throwing up and I fell asleep. Well the next time we drank he was being so sweet and everything and was asking for a blow job and just being real noce. And I was going to do ot but something was said that made me mad. Me and him fight like an old married couple I guess. We drive eachother crazy. Well today he was talking about how he had a panic attack and was throwing up the night I was with him and his brother said ya cause someone can't handle the truth or his feelings or something. I don't know what he meant by that. And my sister talked to him today and he told her I'm hella cool but he can't be with me in that way cause I'm too emotional (which I'm really not) and we have different morals and we drive eachother insane. She explained I'm on my period and give me time I'm cool. And if he would at least hookeup with me. And he said im hella pretty but no cause then I'd want more and she said I just wanted to have sex and he said no I want more than that. But ove come to the agreement with myself that I do just want to have sex. What does all this mean?? I'm confused by this guy. Please don't say talk to him cause I'm trying to show I'm not too emotional and I just want to know why guys do this or if he does like me and he doesn't want to waste his time or get hurt. Cause he's really negative about the relationship stuff like he's had his heart broken a few times. When were in a group he talks to everyone. But I've noticed hell constantly cross eyes with me as he's sauing somrthing or after. Some of his body language shows he's interested but I have no idea what to do. Sorry this is way long. I appologize. But I know you can help better with more detail. Thankyou
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I think he just doesn't know what he wants.
He clearly isn't looking for a relationship. You straight up told him you don't want sex because it will ruin everything. So he doesn't want to get involved physically with you because you'll end up wanting more from him.
You said you did come to the agreement with yourself that you do just want sex. But if you do go through with that, you have to remember that he's not going to want more from you. So if you have feelings for him, don't get involved because you'll end up hurt.
So if you're going to just mess around with him, then I think the only way to make that clear is to talk to him. I mean how else will he know? Unless you have your sister go talk to him again but he probably won't believe it until you actually say something to him.
All girls are emotional to some level. Not all the time, but every once in awhile. So bringing that up, it won't be a big deal.
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I'd really like to help hon but I got lost in all that. I don't think you made any question clear. What is it you wanted advice on?
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