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sex starved question
Hi there,
I am a 13 year old male and i reaaaallllyyyy want to have sex but i don't have a way to buy condoms or lube because i barely have any money and i cant ask my mom or dad to take me to the store to get them because if i do they will lecture me and they will forbid me from having sex until at least 20 because they are mean parents and they will not let me date until 18 so how should i fill my sexual desires?
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The feelings you have are caused by the hormones of puberty now coursing through your body. Masturbating is the best way to relieve these feelings.
Masturbation is quite normal and even good for you in these circumstances. If you don't masturbate at some point you will start having wet dreams. This when your body release the pent up sexual energy through nocturnal ejaculation. Meaning you ejaculate or cum in your sleep. Many boys who have this happen find it quite embarrassing as it leaves a stain on the sheet and your underwear for mom to see when she does the laundry.
Just so you know most people, adults included masturbate. According to a recent survey over 85% report they masturbate. This would include your parents, which as you will learn as you grow older, there is something called mutual masturbation that is part of foreplay prior to intercourse.
As to a 13 year old having sex? Even if you were able to buy condoms and lube. The chances of a girl you age saying yes are slim and none and slim left the building 10 minutes ago.
Masturbation is normal and allows you to get in touch with your sexuality. To find out how you like to be touched and caressed. It is something you do in the privacy of your room. Not because it is bad, but because you want do not to be disturbed. It is not unusual for a teenage boy to masturbate up to four times a day. Also teenage boys will get an erection many times during the day without conscious thought. This is all part of those hormones I spoke about.
So relax, don't try to force some girl to give you sex when you can take care of your problem yourself. Trying to force a girl to give you sex will give you a reputation at school you don't want and you will end up being very lonely.
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im just here to rate anyways..
i feel like you sould wait since you can
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It's hard being a teenage boys with raging hormones. You have such a strong urge to have sex and you already know that you need protection.
So you'll probably have to stick with masturbation until you are ready and prepared to have sex.
I'm sure you know why your parents don't want you having sex. They don't want you to be a father at a young age. So just be patient and try to settle for masturbation for now.
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Sometimes life has big temptations and I am sure as a a teenaged boy the temptations are strong. But your parents only tell you these things for your safety. You dont want to have children at such a young age. My advice for you is to visit WWW.ITSYOURSEXLIFE.ORG and check out the preventing pregnancy section. Also check out some clips from the teen mom tv show so you can see just how hard being a teen parent could be. If you still have the urge to have sex talk to your parents. If you dont want to do this then maybe you should talk to your girlfriend, her parents may be ok with birth control. But I strongly believe you should wait. As hard as it is, being a teen parent is harder. Trust me I know. I had my first child at 16. I hope you take this seriously and think of the consequenses having sex at a young age can bring. Good luck and I hope you make the right choice. And if you do have sex definately use protection to prevent pregnancy and STD's. Maybe a friend can loan you protection if you feel you must have sex.
Stephie :)
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