That being said soap will degrade certain types of condoms. The manufactures of the condoms are aware of sexual practices. Such as where and how people have sex. Look on the box and there should be warning labels as to what types of lubricants can be used and should not be used with the condoms you are using The warning label would most likely say if sop will degrade the condom. If it doesn't go to the manufacturer's website and look there.
Hopefully you are over 14. IF so under a federal law known as HIPPA you can ask you doctor for birth control pills without parental permission. This law was written by congress to give young people over 14 medical confidentiality when it comes to their reproductive systems. So they would seek medical help if needed. As a byproduct of this law birth control can be asked for and given to those over 14 years of age with or without parental permission and parents can never be informed. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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