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how can I get over someone I love
This guy I'm 90% sure I'm in love with. (Its the only explanation I can find for the way he makes me feel) I've known him 2 years. But he lives a few hours from me and I'm not sure we were ever meant to cross paths. But I just cant get over him. No matter what I try. Can someone please give me advice.
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How have you known him for the 2 yrs? Are we talking about an internet relationship? Have you ever met in person? Has he ever hinted at being anything more than a friend to you?
It is easy for our feelings to become involved, how else can you find tears to cry at the tender parts or sad parts of a movie.
Once you are drawn in by details of the characters lives and see the hardships of life they experience, it is easy to develope enough feeling to shed tears at a movie,
so it is the same with a relationship, on the net or in person, just the sharing of information back and forth, and being there to cheer or encourage each other when needed is enough to forge a bond that pulls at your emotions and gets them involved. While you feel something for him, its no guarantee that there is enough there to maintain and grow a relationship. There are many loving relationships where the two are best friends but beyond new relationship excitement energy, there is not enough chemistry or spark to have a vital romantic passionate sex life. Both are important. How many married people no longer have sex but they are married to their best friend.
If this guy has interest to meet you or is already hanging with you as a friend sometimes, you owe it to yourself to just ask him how he feels about you. Or tell him you are curious as to how well the two of you would do if you took it to the next level. It is hard tho because of the distance so there has to be a real strong draw to get you to meet as often as you can so you can determine if there is enough spark to become a couple...and if so, one must be willing to relocate. If he doesn't have any interest other than friends, then write down the aspects about him that you liked that made you feel a love for him, and then go looking for that in other guys.
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First of all make sure that you really want to get over him before even trying to work this out? Destiny helps people who help themselves. But that dusnt mean that you will always be successful. But try enough so that you have no regrets later on.. but if you still want to get over him you have to make yourself strong.. Spiritualism may help..
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