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Sex Cravings Toward Aunt
I have a serious problem.I am 13 years old and i feel like having sex with my aunt. She is single and beautiful. I feel guilty because of this but i cannot help it. Should i approach her? Please help
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First relax you're a normal 13 year old male who's hormones are overriding or trying to override his common sense. This is all normal. If it wasn't your Aunt it could be a neighbor or a young teacher that you have become sexually infatuated with.
The fact is that regardless of who this is you can't act upon this feeling. In this case it would be Incest. In the case of any other adult infatuation you would not only run the very good possibility of embarrassing yourself. But if acted upon; the adult would be at risk of going to jail on charges of statutory rape, child molestation and possibly pedophile charges. These are real legal charges that carry long prison sentences plus having to register as a sex offender when released from jail for the rest of her life.
The preceding are the real life consequences of acting upon the hormonal impulses caused by puberty. You're not weird or strange in any way. Just about every teenage boy will fixate on an older woman at sometime during the early stages of puberty. It is really quite normal. There is no reason to feel guilty or to feel uncomfortable around your Aunt. Remember she does not know she is the object of your sexual desire or fantasy and that is all it should ever be.
What I suggest is you keep this a fantasy to fantasize about while masturbating. Masturbation is the best way to deal with your present and temporary desire. Through masturbation and fantasy you can live out your fantasy in the privacy of your bedroom and have the sexual relief your body is needing.
Masturbation is also normal and nothing to be ashamed of. According to a survey I read over 85% of us masturbate. This would include your parents and your Aunt. Parents masturbate as a part of foreplay prior to intercourse. Oral sex, fingering and hand jobs are part of masturbation.
As you can see masturbation is quite normal as long as it does not become and all encompassing fixation. Just make sure you close and lock your bedroom door so as not to be intruded upon. Even though this is a normal part of life I don't think you want your mom walking in on you in the middle of a good wanking session.
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What are you asking exactly, to approach her and confess how you feel or approach her and ask for sex? Don't do either, because it could make her feel uncomfortable around you.
So are you weird or demented? NO. It is just as natural for a male to be attracted to a female their age range as it is to be attracted to an older female or for older men, to be attracted to younger females. It is a preferance you are born with and is part of who you are. This is nothing to feel guilty about. However you will need to exercise control of those feelings until you are of legal age. If once you're 18 you still feel more attracted to older women than younger ones, go for it. My husband was like that at your age and knew it then but waited until he was old enough. Have you heard the expression MILFs? Its Mothers I'd like to F*$k. Not necessarily their own mom, but their friends moms. And I suppose Aunts and teachers fall into that catagory too. This means there are plenty other guys you will discover over time who feel the same way you do. Don't ever think you are weird. Just don't act on it right now. The adult would be in trouble with the law for doing anything sexual with a minor.
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