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He feels the same for me after I told him I love him
I told a close mate that I love him. And oh my god he told me he feels the same for me too! He's 16 from America. But I'm in Europe. :/ And he told my friend that she doesn't have to worry about him breaking my heart. Then he said 'But just keep in mind, we do live on separate continents. All though I meant everything I told her, you never know what may happen.'
And when she told me this I got scared all though its true. But I don't feel safe somehow. He said to me that him being with me sounds perfect.. And I promised him that we will meet one day and he did too.
If he would really mean everything and really believe in us and love me, such a thing wouldn't happen right? :c
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When you're a teen and fall for someone long distance I understand it can be really love. But realistically, though you both feel that way, since you are not at this point in time able to be together to cement that relationship in doing things together, going to school dances, dating, it is all to easy for life to bring along someone equally perfect for you, or for him. That is the danger of a long distance relationship that has ONLY been on line so far with no history of being together in real life.
Let me ask you, do you intend to hide yourself away from life, never talk to any guys, never go to any school dances or otIf it was the other way around andher activities because you don't want to encourage any boy. Once you graduate, instead of college, you'd have to go straight to work and start saving up so you can afford to go fly over and meet your guy if he is still available. Lets say he is. So you meet and hang out with him and discover that though you loved him online, in person you don't feel any charge of electricity, any chemistry when you kiss. Thats not a good sign for a relationship. If you still forced it, the relationship won't last long if you don't have enough chemistry.
There are so many 'what if' scenerio's between now and when you finally meet. So even if you both rejected any people who wanted to date you, there is no 100% guarantee that it still will work out. Your boyfriend already realizes this. You can not be angry at him. He is being a realist. Thats how he, and I see things. You see things differently. You have to decide if you are going to enjoy and participate in what life brings your way or become a recluse and wait to meet him some day. It can be a very lonely long wait. Sorry but if I disappoint you. Its not for me to decide how he should live his life or you yours. I can only present you with all points to look at
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