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My close mate Okay so I got this close friend, and like he's a real pervert but he's really cute and nice. He's loving and caring. And I don't really know but I kind of like him. And I wanted to know, why is he so perverted with me? I'm also like that with him and every now and then he's like this. I'm not saying its pissing me off, but could he like me back?
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I am not sure what you think perverted means so I will post the dictionaries interpretation of the word and then try to answer.
Perverted: Something or someone that has deviated from what is considered right, correct, natural, moral, ethical, or its intended function. Examples of perversion would be "perverted justice" or "sexually perverted acts". Dictionary went on to list things that the majority of society agree upon as being perverted: sadism, masochism, flashing,incest, pedophilia, bestiality, rape and even included some that society is coming to not feel as harshly towards, like prostitution and swinging and homosexuality, bi sexuality, cross dressing, transgender
Somehow, perverted doesn't go along in my mind with loving caring friend.
If you are simply refering to every mans 24/7 thoughts of sex and horniness then its natural. Maybe a bit exaggerated but it consumes a great amount of their waking day. What most men have learned to do is hold those feelings and urges in check and acting more appropriately for the situation. If you two are having sex together and he does this in the bedroom, that is fine. If he grabs and squeezes your boobs in public in front of his friends, thats not proper social behavior. If anything he does makes you uncomfortable..you need to let him know. If he is not considerate of your feelings, you'll need to decide whether its something to part ways about. ]
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