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crush crisis :(
ok so i'm a guy and theres this girl i really like. let's say her name is Ash. i've had 2 girlfriends before but both of the relationships ended because i always ended up liking Ash again. I reallly like her and i don't know what to do. she is very pretty and sort of shows different feelings towards me every day. some days (rarely) she will be super nice to me and sometimes even flirty (:O) but most of the times when i try to talk to her she just shuts me down. the problem is that i cant get her out of my mind and she is literally (legit no joke) on my mind 24/7... and i imagine us going out but the funny thing is that my imagination of when we go out isn't even good. i just dont see the point in relationships because all my past girlfriends we didnt really kiss or even date (yeah ik im a middle schooler it's pretty pointless) so i don't even know what i want. i've never kissed a girl and i skipped a grade and so did she so we're the same age :) so i need help i sometimes even cry over her :( and the fact that i'm sitting here typing a 1500 character plead for help shows how much i like her. also when she talks and like does stuff with other guys i get really jealous and it just breaks my heart </3 thank you so much if someone read this whole thing through and thank you even more for a helpful response. Thank you!!
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Hey there,
Very sorry for the delayed reply! To answer your question: talk to her! If she's single, you've got to go for it dude! Start small by complimenting something about her every time you see her - shoes, clothes, her smile, how she laughs, her make up, anything! (: Why does she shut you down? Figure out why then try to see if she will grab a drink or food with you sometime in a public place. Offering to go out in public is less awkward for a girl if you're interested in dating her (she doesn't need to know this yet!). Why do you imagine going out with her to be not good? If you imagine it to be bad, then maybe you need to work on some things? Such as, how you present yourself or how you will talk to her.
Just so you know, your past relationships will not determine your future relationships - as long as you know what you need to do to have a successful relationship. The reason why we go through breakups is not so we can mope, but so we can learn from them and know how to be a better person the next time around. Also, it doesn't matter if you haven't kissed a girl. Why? Because your time will come, with the right girl and you will be the happiest guy, trust me (; You both are obviously smart. So find out what you have in common and go with it. Ask her to go for a walk in her favorite place, offer to buy her a drink and/or leave her a short cute note somewhere where she'll find it. As for the jealousy, try not to be. She is single and therefore can talk to whomever she likes, just like you can. The key to getting to know a girl and possibly become her girlfriend is to Always Be Her Friend First. If you remember this, you shall find the right girl and be able to make her yours. <3
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