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Help me explain drunk night with male cousin
So I am a 19 year old female, and my cousin is and 18 year male. We haven't seen each other for like 3 years and we've both grown up quite a lot. My dad and I went to my aunts house for a party, and everyone was drinking. My aunt and my dad and their boyfriend and girlfriend went to a couple of other peoples houses to say hi and have a few drinks. So my cousin and I thought we need to catch up to their level, and we've never drank together before. So him and I started talking about high school and how much we hated it and stuff and talking about jobs and my cousin asked if I had a boyfriend and I told him no and so he asked if I've ever had one and I told him no, I just haven't met anyone yet. I thought that was a little weird because we've never talked about stuff like that but we're both grown up now and haven't seen each other in like 3 years. Anyway so we were doing shots together and talking about drinks we like and drinks we don't like and all that then his mom and my dad and their boyfriend and girlfriend get back and we're all doing shots together and having a good time. My cousin walked over to the next door neighbors to ask if we could have some of their wood for a fire in the fire pit. Shortly after that i went over there to see if I could help and just to see what was going on. So they say no and I tell him we should just walk back to his house and on the way they have this shed in their back yard which is creepy looking but I heard my cousin had put in like a beer pong table and made it fun and I had him show me and it's really dark and we're both a little drunk already so while walking I was making sure he didn't fall by like grabbing his shoulders or hand or something. We decide to go back over to his house and my dads girlfriend wants cigarettes and my cousin said he had some and he could barely walk so I went with him. We get to the door and he says "thank you for helping me" randomly. We go inside and he heads for his moms room and i ask him what he's doing and he says something about how his mom and her boyfriend aren't there, which was random. So we go to his room to get his car keys and he opens a drawer and he's got two big boxes of condoms in it and I turned away because I was like I probably shouldn't be seeing this. He falls on his bed so I help him up and we head out to his car and on the way he tells me i need to hold him better so i do and we get to his car and he grabs the cigarettes and sits sideways in the driver seat and i try to give him a hand getting out but he says no so he puts his head between his legs and starts throwing up. I asked if he was okay to walk inside the house and he said no and i wasn't doing so well myself so i was rubbing his back and his head for a while until my dad and his girlfriend came looking or us and I got them to help get him inside to the bathroom. They get him in there and him and I both end up sitting on the floor and he's throwing up and spitting and i'm trying to help him as much as i can so i get a glass of water in case he needed it and i get something cold to put on his neck and forehead to help him feel better and i rub his back and make sure he's throwing up in the toilet. Meanwhile he kept holding my hand and leaning on my shoulder and grabbing me for something to hold onto and all this so after a long time we get him into bed with a bucket and anything we thought he might need and then the next day everyone else wakes up with a bit of a hangover but not as bad as my cousins and mine seemed to keep getting worse. I wanted to go check on him but for some reason I thought that might be weird and I didn't want to bug him or anything so I didn't. Well a friend of mine says this sounds like my cousin was coming onto me or something and that it's weird we were holding hands and stuff. I think he's just my cousin and he was drunk and I was helping him out. What do you think?
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Theres nothing weird about that at all. When people get drunk together weather they're family or not they need help if they get that wasted which you were just helping him out. Especially if he was that drunk he started puking he was not thinking straight (not that there was anything he did wrong) I think you're just over thinking the situation and your friends is putting thoughts into your head. It would've been over board if he kissed you or grabbed your butt or something but he didnt so you have nothing to worry about.
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