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i feel like i am a slut. am i?
i am 15 year old female from india. in india there are cultural restrictions in society. yet i got driven away and sent 2 bikini pics to my bf by mail. but my x who had dumped me hacked my mail and saw them n also read our naughty chat. now since someone other than my future husband has seen me i feel like i am a slut and i can even be sold for money and sex. i posted this on a confession page n replies were that i am a slut. i do view porn. what am i?
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You're not a slut.
In England, a slut is a girl who sleeps with lots of different men. You havn't done that.
Don't listen to what people tell you on Confessional websites-they don't even know you. As bad as it sounds, they actually like being nasty to people like you and taking advantage. Some people who answer questions on here are also like that-nasty because it makes them feel better.
I'm not like that though. I think that it is natural for any teenager to view porn-in this day and age when society is so secretive about sex, it's one of the only places people can find answers to their questions.
Partiularly in your culture, you're kept in the dark about a lot of things surrounding sex, because of the whole 'marriage should be permanent' thing.
I think you shouldn't worry.
Try to limit watching the porn because its not that healthy. You want to solve this? The best way is just to not do it again.
Your ex can't erase what he saw from his memory, but you can move forward from this. It's worse for your ex-why would he hack your email account in the first place?
He had no right to do that. Keep smiling :)
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