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Phone numbers from many girls
What do i do when many girls give me their phone numbers?
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Laughing because my nephew had many girls calling him starting in junior high. I remember his popularity. It wasn't so much about his looks although he's a good looking kid now graduated from HS with a steady girlfriend. It was more about how he treated all the girls. He wanted to genuinely be friends with them without acting like a player or wanting to pressure girls for sex.
My question to you is: What kind of guy do you think they see in you?.
maybe they like you because you seem to be respectful to girls and treat them just the same as you would your buddies so they see friendship with you as a way to learn more about what boys are like in a safe setting...as friends, buddies.
If you are this kind of guy, you know it.
What is it you want at this point? If just friends, ask those giving you their numbers, if they are looking for a friend or a boyfriend because right now you want just friends.
If you really want to find a girl to date, ask the girls again are you looking for a friend or a guy to date you? If they want to be friends, let them know you are more in the dating mode right now to discover first what you like in a girl. If they say they want a boyfriend to date, this is the best way to learn about females, what you like and don;t like because it will help someday when or if you go looking for a mate. Tell them you are still trying to learn what you like in females and believe you can learn that just as well as a friend or buddy without the going on dates and being exclusive with one person.
Those are examples and I know you'll figure out what to say in your own words. Steer away from dating at first and discover first what you like in personality in girls and then later date the ones with personality traits you like and from them choose the one you want to explore sex with or if you already have, learn more about what you like in a sex partner.
Lucky you that they are offering their numbers but don;t just accept them without your explanation first. Always be upfront with the females and even though they might not be happy that you aren't picking them to start an exclusive, going steady relationship with, they will at least respect you. Don't make any promises you might not be able to keep. Oh and its okay to do group stuff. Lets say you wanna go out to pizza Saturday and then hang out at the mall with friends, call a couple guy friends and a group of girls to go so maybe theres 8 of you in the group. Let the girl being invited know you are inviting a group of girls and guys so they know its not just you and her. If she accepts, go on to the next til you have your group. Nephew did lots of group stuff hanging with friends girls and guys. Hope that helps
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