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Light red blood after masturbation
Hello, I am a 14 year old girl and I masturbate. As imbarrased as I may be, this could be serious. Last night I was masturbating with 2 fingers. I played around a bit and when I pulled them out, I notices a little blood. I then took a wet wipe and put it in to see how much blood there was. Not much, but enough to make me worry. It was a light red color and yes, I am still a virgin. I am worried that I hurt something because I was a bit rough. Please help I'm scared!
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First of all I doubt you have anything to worry about. Being a virgin means that you have not been sexually penetrated by a male penis. So if you have not torn your hymen by using tampons it is possible that the rough masturbation has torn you hymen or you may have scratched yourself with a finger nail.
If you did dislodge your hymen or scratch yourself there is nothing to be concerned about unless you continue to bleed or you bleed each time you masturbate. Then it would be advisable to see a GYN.
Now since you are 14 years old you can do so without your parents knowledge or consent if you feel you need to and need to do so without telling your parents. By a Federal Law known as HIPPA anyone over the age of 14 may seek medical treatment without parental consent or knowledge for any problem related to their reproductive system. What you have written about qualifies under this description.
Under this law you may make an appointment, see the doctor be treated by the doctor all without parental knowledge or permission. Neither the doctor or anyone else in the office may release any information about what you see the doctor for or are treated for without your written permission. To do so subjects then to 5 years in prison.
These visits are entirely confidential so that young adults can speak openly and frankly with the doctor so that they may be properly cared for. This is the intent behind this portion of the HIPPA Law. No judge will violate this provision as it has stood the test of the U S Supreme Court.
In short if you feel you need to be seen by a doctor you can so in total confidentiality. Should mom go with you just say to the doctor or nurse you invoke your HIPPA rights and mom will be told she needs to stay in the waiting room.
Your parents health insurance will pay for the visit and all your parents will see is an (EOB)explanation of benefits showing you visited a doctor, the charges, the amount paid and the date. If you wish while you are with the doctor, even though you are a virgin, you can discuss with the doctor birth control medication not just for birth control but to normalize your menstrual cycle.
Hope this helps.
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Hi there. Firstly, masturbating a little energetically with two fingers is really not going to have done you any proper damage or hurt anything. Of course, you ladies have your hymen, or your 'cherry' and it's quite possible that yours isn't now intact, and the 'tearing' of it would account for a little blood. Seeing blood is always a bit scary for any person. So let's assume you have. Well, really when you relax and take a good look at it, it's really not the end of the world. Not even close. It can break at any time, perhaps doing some energetic sports, horseriding is an 'old offender' too. The number of girls who do 'pop their cherry' while pleasuring themselves is large. Some quite deliberately, some accidentally. Add to that a 'first proper boyfriend' who's a little bit eager, clumsy or both while 'fingering'.You are perfectly entitled to say you're 'still a virgin' in any of these cases. And when you choose the guy you first feel happy and comfortable about having sex with, he'll be the one who breaks your virginity, in the only meaningful sense of the word. There's nothing whatsoever to be scared about mate. And the urge and need to release some of that pent-up sexual tension that you'll certainly feel at fourteen is perfectly natural and normal, so you haven't 'spoiled everything' by being a bit too eager, or any nonsense like that, by any means. It's just a healthy young woman's needs, which you satisfy in the usual way and enjoy doing it. I can undertand that 'losing your virginity' is significant, a big issue for a girl. But believe me, you HAVEN'T done it!! Just torn a small 'film' of tissue that doesn't actually 'do' anything. Which isn't really too much to be scared about, is it? There's a basis to the idea you're feeling. If a girl who's hymen is intact has full, penetrative sex with her boyfriend, she loses her virginity and her hymen will be torn. But the torn hymen itself is not what it pivots on, the point is she's had full, penetrative sex...one doesn't equal the other. Obviously, you won't want to be using any sort of unsuitable object to enhance your pleasure while masturbating, roughness or sharp edges could indeed 'graze' or even cut slightly inside you, which would be uncomfortable, and possibly serious. Fingers...fine. Two? No problem! Objects sold by reputable manufacturers as sex-aids are perfectly safe all round of course, anything else is taking a bit of a silly risk. Have fun, and don't worry.
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