a follow up to the question about whether you should stick by your spouse in jail
I got this response from others
so here is one of the answers I got from asking similar questions elsewhere
"Even though she is very sorry for making the mistake and even though she regrets it, she is still a delinquent and has to pay for the crime that she committed. She should have thought about it before doing it. I am sure that she will be behind bars for quite a while. She is not a good example for your daughter and I think that you should raise her all by yourself. You can take your daughter to see her delinquent mother in jail, but I suggest you only take her once a week."
this seems kind of harsh don't you think? I never said I was going to break her out of jail or something. And also like I said she admitted what she did was wrong, she is not pretending any different.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Rena-Chan answered Monday May 6 2013, 10:56 am: The mother made a mistake like every human does. I believe that is harsh. No child should be raised by a single parent. I believe both parents should be as involved with their child as much as possible to insure a healthy up bringing. If that were the case *what the others are saying* Then I would have grown up an orphan, as both of my parents were in jail. Just because they went to jail didn't make them any less a mother and father. Yes, my father went to jail for domestic violence due to PTSD *shell shock, he's a veteran* and my mother for use of drugs *she's clean now* To be honest, because of their mistakes, I learned not to make the same ones. My parents did everything they could to make up for it, and they became great parents and never made the same mistake again. What those people are saying are apparently very ignorant that EVERYONE makes mistakes in their lives. It's completely natural, some more serious than others, but because of mistakes made, their children can learn from them as well. [ Rena-Chan's advice column | Ask Rena-Chan A Question ]
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