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i met a girl I met a girl on a chat website and we lived pretty close surprise. So we chatted I am older and we got to knoe each other pretty well. we started to meet and go over to each others houses. I started to have feelings for her and i like her a lot. I think she likes me to but I am scared to lose a good friend. please help me!!!!!
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Well, you are starting things right by beginning as friends. The guys and gals who are dating have more a chance of a stable relationship when falling for each other romantically. So this is natural.
She is probably as scared as you of messing up a friendship. Ask some questions to find out where her thoughts are at. Use your own words but an example might be, "I know we're pretty good friends, right?" Of course she'll agree.
"I am wondering if you have ever thought about the future regarding our friendship? Would you be open to seeing it grow into something more, like a romantic relationship." If she says no, you haven't admitted yet how you feel. if she asks why, then tell her You have hopes of finding a female friend who will grow into a romantic love for you. If she says yes, then you can tell her your feelings are taking you there already. How does she feel? ]
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