When a female gets sexually excited their vagina's become wet. This happens to prepare their vagina for sexual intercourse or penetration by fingering in this case. A females nipples will also become hard when she is sexually excited or if the are cold.
So as I first stated you should be concerned if a boyfriend did not get an erection when fingering you; even though you may not have planned to have intercourse. Fingering is part of foreplay when you do eventually plan to have intercourse. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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