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my mom has been physically and mentally abusing me
The doctors do not know if they can operate on her brain or not without causing more physical damage than there is already. she has spanked the kids but never hard enough to live marks or bruising just but she cussed the 11 and 12 year old out just as bad as she does me and i am 24. my moms threatened to send the 12 year old to a foster home because the 12 year old girl threatened to call welfare on her because of what's been going on. she has never done any of the before her brain injury.
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I had a feeling this is what you would tell me if you wrote back to me. Brain tumors can cause a change in personality especially if they keep growing. You need to call her doctor(s) specifically her neurosurgeon and advise the doctor(s) of your mothers change in personality and behavior.
It is important for the doctors to know this for if they are going to operate they need to do so sooner rather than later. If they have been trying to shrink the tumor before operating then they need to know this for whatever they are doing is either not working or causing this change in her personality.
Since this problem has only come about since mom has had her brain injury a call to child welfare is in order for the grand children are in danger. If you are registered with welfare as a mentally retarded adult as mom is telling you. Then you too will be seen as in danger and welfare will assist you with new living arrangements as well as seeing to it that mom is looked after.
While I am not a doctor from what you have written it is not hard for me to make the assumption that moms brain injury has caused enough of a change in her, that she is now a danger to herself and others. If I am correct the doctors will know what to do and how to help her.
Call her doctors and tell them what is happening and what changes you are observing. Also call child welfare and advise them that the children may be in danger and they need to come out and visit the home.
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