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He doesn't treat me the same
Ever since my boyfriend started working nights we barely spend time together and when we do we just have sex then he falls asleep we never talk he doesn't even cuddle with me sometimes even though he's with me I still feel alone i dont know what to do every time I try to tell him how I feel he tells me to shh or he just ignores me I love him I want to be with him I just wish he would treat me the way he use to any advice?
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You may find this hard to believe but this is not something that is wrong with your boyfriend or you. It is his job or more specifically his work hours. Our bodies are at their best if we are in a routine they are geared to which is controlled by the moon. We are supposed to sleep when it is dark and work and play when it is light.
In other words working nights upsets the rhythm we have set for ourselves since the day we were born. We adjust but we truly do not be come accustomed to working opposite what is the norm. We are not use to coming home and eating a breakfast and then going to sleep and waking up to having dinner. Then spending a few hours with you or family and going of to work.
When I worked nights I stopped coming home and having breakfast with my family, instead I stopped and had dinner. Then I did what most people do after work and then went home and went to sleep. When I got up I ate a breakfast even if the family was having dinner. This helped some but not fully.
If your boyfriend finds himself in the cycle I was in he may want to try adjusting his meals to fit his work cycle as well as his sleep cycle.
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