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My step dad is a pervert!
My mom recently got married to a guy who's 15 years younger than her, and lately he's been acting very unfatherly-like towards me. My mom goes out to work and when I get out of school its just me him and my other siblings. At first he wasn't so weird...I mean we'd say good morning, and then pretty much avoid each other all day. Then he started sitting with me at breakfast, trying to converse. After, we started talking more and more and I guess we opened up more to each other. However about a month ago, things started getting really weird. He started asking me really awkward questions like "are you a virgin"and "when are you planning to lose it"...he also kept asking me about my relationship status, and things I just wasn't comfortable discussing with him. And after a while, those kinds of things seemed to be the only things he wanted to discuss. After those conversations, things started getting even more odd and disturbing. He makes comments about my chest or my butt. He started getting really touchy-feely with me. When I'd be in the kitchen he'd like wrap his arm around my waist, and when we'd sit on the couch and watch tv together, he'd get really close to me and sometime he brushes up on me and I just try to avoid him. At first I really tried to convince myself that he was just trying to be fatherly. However, I soon realized this wasn't the case as he started saying really innapropriate things and looking at me in a creepy way. Not that long ago he even tried to slip his hand into my shirt in a "jokey" kind of way if that even makes sense. After I'd asked him why he'd done that he told me he was just playing around and that he wasn't serious. I really doubt that. I really don't know what to do at this point...I'm not 100% sure that he's not playing around...but then again I feel really disgusted and violated by him. I really don't want to start unnecessary drama...and plus my mom would not believe me. My mom has been in & out of me and my siblings lives, other ppl have raised us and then she gets us back and she's barely there, when she doesn't have a job, she's out of town with her friends partying and my step dad helps with the bills. If I told her she would start a huge fight with me and not believe me. I'm really freaked out! I keep thinking about it and He has been looking at me weird
i want to tell my mom. what if she doesnt believe me?
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I had already answered this question, Seeing you deleted I will give you the same exact answer....
You should try recording him
Whether he is joking or not he has crossed the line far to many times.You should try to at least let your mother become aware of the situation. Although she may not fully believe you at first, She will keep an eye out a bit more as ut will be in the back of her mind. This guy is being a creep and is harrassing you. If he tries to touch you, Tell him straight up to back off! Lock your bedroom door at all times but you need to let your mother become aware of this
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