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boyfriend avoids his friends when im around
Hey guys
I really need advice. My boyfriend is 17 and im 16.His friends know he is dating me and he has my name on his relationship status on facebook so its not like he is trying to hide it. I mean, he always says to me, "im so lucky to have you your the most beautiful girl i have ever seen and i never even thought i would be this lucky to even have a chance with you."
The weird part is, i noticed when his friends are around when i am with him, he tries to avoid them. I know who his friends are and stuff they go to my school. But for example when we were in his room at his house,his sister had one of his friends over (the friend is friends with him and his sister) and my boyfriend told me to be really quiet. I kept asking him why and he wouldnt tell me. He opened the door to his room quick and said hi to his friend and then shut the door again. He kept telling me not to say anything. I persistantly kept asking him why and finally after a long time he said because he didnt want his friend coming in and saying stuff. ???? To me that sounds like a stupid reason and not really beleivable but i cant think of any reason why he did that. Any ideas?
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Hello there! Your boyfriend sounds really sweet with those Facebook updates. Honestly, I don't think that he is ashamed of you or anything like that, but rather, he might just want to keep you all to himself! Perhaps he is afraid he's friends might say certain things that are inappropriate and it is possible that he is trying to protect you... Anyways, maybe try to talk to him and him kindly why... Hope this helps!:)
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Is this a new relationship? Even if it isn't he's hung up on you knowing that you are his sole-focus 100% of time which isn't realistic. He knows his friends tend to be "in your face" or take control of every situation and would rather be alone with you and not them.
You're probably thinking why isn't he showing me off to his friends or hanging with me with them? Well, that's a question you have to ask him and tell him to stop acting "stupid" over this and that it pisses you off you're not included. I'm sure he'll get it but he won't click in if you are silent about it. It's a minor fix that need not lead to a fight.
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