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is it ok to finger yourself over a guy you like?
Im a 13 year old girl and finger myself over a guy i like should i do this at 13 ?
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It's not at all unusual and perfectly natural for a girl of 13 to have discovered the pleasures of masturbating (or 'fingering yourself' if you prefer the term). Guys around your age often enjoy doing their thing while looking at pictures or movies (not necessarily explicit pornography, could be their fave celeb in a skimpy dress and not pornographic at all). Girls quite often prefer 'ideas' or mental 'pictures' (though some like visual eye-candy, which is fine too) when they pleasure themselves. Your choice of bloke is completely up to you. Celeb, sports star, can be older than you (probably will be if it's a celeb) even a cool/handsome teacher at your school. Or a guy around your age you actually know and meet daily. If it's a teacher don't flirt with him in real life though will you! If it's that guy you've fancied for ages, who knows? You might end up an item one day! Your absolutely fine. Have fun! ]
This is normal and nothing to worry about. It's your decision to continue it or not. It's a healthy way of dealing with sexual feelings. ]
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