Where to start, em well in September a new boy joined my school he was 19 at the time and i was 15, we got to know each other from saying hi and had some mutual friends, after 2 months his friends told me that he liked me. This was a big joke throughout the school b/c i was 15 and he was 19, but i really liked him and only my best friend knew this. I never told him this went on for 5 months and i got to know him a bit better he was really nice to me and never brought up the subject of us liking each other. In march on a night out we ended going home together in the same car (with mutual friends) and he told me he liked me and we kissed (IT WAS AMAZING) everyone found out in school and made a joke of it and he got embarrassed and started to avoid me which was very easy as we were in different parts of the school all the time, we stopped talking. I never stopped thinking about him and wondered what i done to push him away. I never stopped liking him since it all started. Recently i have been seeing him around a lot more and he has kind of started talking to me again, but everyone keeps teasing us (calling us each others names etc). Anyways i really need someone to talk to about my situation as i never really confided in anyone about this because i don't want people to know i really him, b/c that would just make it worse. Also what is worse this is his last year in school and after June i will probably never see him ever again and i have never felt like this about someone ever before in my life and i don't know how to tell him all this and have my dreams come true in such a short period of time. I have never felt like this before every time i think about this i feel a bit sick b/c i know the times getting closer until he leaves forever and i will never tell him about how i feel about him. Every time i see him my tummy ties up and i feel nearly light headed no matter where i see him or even hear his name. What do i do? P.S(I'm now 16 and he's still 19. I am a Pisces and he is a Virgo.)
Youre 16 now- thats the age of consent, so its not illegal or anything. In fact, as you get older, the age gap becomes less noticable.
You should not care what everyone else in school thinks. Years below you are just jealous and years above will look for any excuse to joke with someone. >Although, that Age gap IS unusual I admit, but who am I to judge? Theres 18 year olds with 30 year olds right? And He might be the hottest guy ever for all I know xD <
Tell him quick before he leaves. You dont know what his response will be but thats just life. If he has moved on and doesnt like you, he will say so, but thats a risk youve got to take-- if you think he's worth it.
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