A guy I like is doesn't talk to me like he used to
Question Posted Thursday April 11 2013, 12:31 am
I met this guy at church during the summer and I feel in love with him (literally but not at the same time). Then school started and he was saying hi to me almost everytime he saw me. I was loving it but then it stopped happening. Then he started only talkin to me at church. He's in a relationship right now but today we had a really good time with our friends. We talked and laughed and played around and stuff. I have a feelin that it doesn't mean ANYTHING but I want some comment on what I should do or how I should handle it or your opinion.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lightoftruth answered Thursday April 11 2013, 9:34 pm: What I think you should do is not read too much into it. He probably was interested in you back then and since he's in a relationship right now, that's why he doesn't talk to you as much.
Right now, you should move on and try to find someone else. He won't return your feelings while he is in a relationship and it's best not to get too involved or start liking him even more when he's not available. It could get messy and you could end up really hurt.
So you should try to direct your feelings away from him and do your best to move on. It will take time but it will happen. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
unthinkableposs answered Thursday April 11 2013, 9:48 am: Well, I think that now that he's in a relationship you shouldn't really get in between. So my advice is just to become friends with him. Get to really know him and you will see the most important thing: if you're really in love with him.
As for how he feels, you can only hope and time will tell. Good luck! [ unthinkableposs's advice column | Ask unthinkableposs A Question ]
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