Confused what it all means: what is happening to my body?
Question Posted Saturday April 6 2013, 4:23 pm
I'm 14/F and I don't know what it means when I'm doing this.. I think it's gross myself to masturbate by sticking anything up "there". But sometimes at night I use the leg of a polar bear pillow thing and i rub it different ways over my vagina.. and sometimes in the right way i feel discharge I guess coming out of my vagina and get this really really weird goodish feeling in my body and then it goes away and I keep do it again to get that feeling again and then I fall asleep. What am I doing or feeling and what's happening? I'm sort of worried.
First there is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating. According to a recent survey over 85% of us do so. If you do not wish to stick anything up your vagina you do not have too. Your fingers or the bear you are using is more than enough to experience what is meant to be experienced through masturbation and you have.
The discharge and "goodish feeling" you feel means you have had an orgasm. This is the ultimate goal of masturbation which is to release the sexual tension and stress you are feeling. By reaching orgasm you have found that release.
Masturbation is a pleasant and safe way to release sexual tension as you cannot become pregnant by it. You do so in the privacy of your bedroom where you cannot be disturbed so you can find that release and not become further frustrate. You also find out more about your own sexual needs through masturbation by finding out how you like to be touched and caressed so when the time is right to have a true sex life you can help your partner please you. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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