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Awkward one night stand but without the sex
Ok, so the other night after a friend's party I ended up making out and fooling around with this guy. He happens to be a friend of my friend. Anyways, I wasn't interested in sex because I met him when I was drunk and high. He respected that and we ended up dry humping all night long. We cuddled a lot, held hands and kissed through it all. It felt very couple-ey. And he spent the night, pretty much the same thing happened the next morning with the kissing and that. We ran fingers along our backs, arms and stuff. It was lovely to say the least and I can't stop thinking about him. I know I will probably meet him again through our mutual friend, just... So awkward. He didn't even ask for my number the next morning. This is not really me, this one night stand thing, Im a relationship kind of girl, was just having a bit of fun which ended up like this.
Anyways so I basically want your opinion on the situation etc. Should I just shut him out and move on? I know of him quite a bit too, through friends.
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I think the best thing to do is give it some time. If he is really into you and interested in dating, he will reach out. You could always friend him on Facebook, if you both have accounts (and hey, most of us do), and let him know you had a good time and would be interested in hanging out. The reason I say to wait a little, about a few days to a week, is that sometimes guys turn away from girls who seem too eager or available. Also think about whether there was any chemistry (aside from just the physical stuff) between you two. I say give it a shot, because you have nothing to lose. But stay level headed through it all.
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