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How do I perceive my crush only as a friend?
Hey guys.. This is not really my first time here and the question may sound foolish but i kind of need a help in this. First off, i've been friends with an overseas guy since last two years. We're of the same age, but we don't live the same life. To be frank, we haven't even reached the age of 20 yet, and he is a very nice person.. And i don't know why, i've started to like him early of thisyear and for now, i don't even think i'm liking him but instead, loving him. Whenever i think of him, my heart starts blooming and i always hope that he'll constantly be in a fine state.. Although yeah, doesn't mean he's having the same feeling towards me. It doesn't matter if he has a girlfriend already (but one of my other friend told me he's single and that he had a crush on me six months before, but recently i've no idea.), i just feel lucky enough to still be his friend. What can i say guys, he's beyond my league eventhough he says he loves me (as friends i think). It's just that, i can't stand feeling like this anymore, i just want to think of him as a friend. I really want to let him know that i really love him not as a friend but it's impossible. Different cities, different religions and again, different lives. He has tonnes of worldwide buds i think whereas i've a few but i don't care. It kills me inside thinking about him all day when i've other more important things to think of. I want to stop thinking about this. It might even lead to nonsensical heartbreak created by myself. And, I do fill my days with a lot of activities but you know the feeling when the person you care so much about comes to mind. Help.
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Hello to you too,
When I was reading this all I could think of was god this girl is smart. Not many people think of the odds and just go for it but you seem to be taking it slow. My advise would be GO FOR IT HONEY!! You'll always be wondering how this could have ended, happy or sad. Why didnt you take the chance and so on. If you really like the guy tell him!! It's like you'll bump into him and it'll be awkward or something. You should take risks, maybe they'll lead you to happieness or a heck of a lot adventures.
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Hello there,
From what you wrote you seem like a very mature person...i would say take a step at a time
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