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Ex-Boyfriend but I still have feelings for him
I have no idea what to do. So I guess I should start with the whole story. We weren't dating for a very long time just 3 months. We went on a double date to the movies and he put his arm around me and I thought it was perfect but then the next morning he texted me and said "I have to break up with because my parents are making me." I didn't think this was true but I just didn't want to believe the fact that he was lying to me. He also said it was because his grades really suck. Then when I went to school one of my best friends told me that it was a total lie and that he just wanted to date this other girl. I was so mad that I called him and I wanted to talk with him but he never answered and then I texted him and we both said some pretty bad things to each other. Then about 2-3 weeks later he texted me asking me if I liked anyone and I said no but it was a lie because I still like him. And he said that he likes a couple of other girls and that I was one of them. I think he will try to ask me out again, but I'm not sure what I should say. I need some advice on whether or not to say yes or no. I just want some more input on this other from my bestfriend. Thanks
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Well if I was in your situation, I would say no. It's very immature of him to act like everything is fine and go on a date with you, then break up with you the next morning. It was immature of him to lie to you instead of being truthful, and it's immature of him to text you telling you he likes you along with a couple other girls.
It's ok to still have feelings for him, it's completely understandable but it's not a good reason to get back together after what has happened. It's not fair to you. He can't just jump to whoever he wants whenever he wants.
Try your best to move on and show him you're better than that. He'll regret letting you go and realize it was a huge mistake. It's better to move on and find a guy who can actually be there for you and not screw with your feelings.
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I would say no. I've been in the same situation. I had told my ex that I had liked him but he chose a different girl over me so we didn't talk for a couple months. Then he was able to find and contact me and he asked me out. he explained to me that it was a mistake and he liked me not her. We ended up going out but broke up a couple months later. He then again approached me and ask me out and like an idiot I said yes. We broke up for the second time. Again after a couple months he approached me but this time he proposed. you think I would have learned my lesson but I didnt and. said yes. after about 6 months he broke up with me and called me a clingy b***h.
What can I say first time shame on him second time shame on me third time I'm just a idiot. there was no trace of our relationship except for the tears falling from my eyes and a broken heart followed behind me.
I can't tell you what to do but I am begging you and asking you please don't make the same mistake I did; you will regret it.
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