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regain chastity
i am unmarried and i had lost my virginity since 2007 and i had my last intercourse in 2010 after it i have never a sexual relationship at all now i am going to get married and how can i satisfied my husband as he do not know about my lost virginity.
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You know, I often wonder these days how anyone makes things special between them and the one they end up married to. The best way, seems to me, is to ignore what has been done in the past. I always say I have lived two lives, the one before I married my wife and the one after. Your life my dear starts over with your new husband, he doesn't need to know your past relationships and how far they went. He is the only one that matters now and that is the response you should give him if he asks. He is the one you chose to marry. The only exception should be if you contracted any sexually transmitted diseases that have not been cured, he has the right to know what he's getting into if this is the case.
I guess what I am saying is, these things are often things that you can not clear from your conscious and you have to live with. We should never take lightly doing things we could regret later, because we have to live with regrets, sometimes unforgiven the rest of our lives. Put them behind you and see what your new life brings you, some day, perhaps we will find release from our regrets, just don't expect it and don't expect it to come from others. Don't make others suffer for your regrets, give them a chance to live their lives with no regrets.
Things will always work out for the best if you put your loved ones before yourself. I hope this helps you, Be well my dear spirit.
P.S.If I can be of any more help, contact me this way, I think my advice to open questions are blocked from view of others because of my candor, so I'm not giving advice on the open form any more. If it takes me a few days to get back to you, this is why.
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