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sexual thoughts and stuff...
sometimes i get those sexual toughts and that makes me feel uncomfortable i feel like everyone knows what im thinking,i get in class sometimes too and i feel like a huge pervert,am i?
and theres this guy in my class that i sometimes stare at and i feel this strong desire for him and im thinking like: oh god i wanna fuck him. and im fucking 15,is it ok orrr? (imma gurl)
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No you're certainly not a pervert for thinking a lot about boys and sex at 15. I'd only be surprised or shocked if you didn't! Nobody, of course can really know what you're thinking. Mind-reading is a stage-act. Girls are pretty intuitive mind you, and might guess you're fixing on this particular guy, but you're actual thoughts...they're impenetrable and private. I dare say they'll all be lusting after some fanciable male. The ones a little less mature in outlook might be fixed on a celebrity, tv or movie or music star...they're a bit 'safer' as you might say. You're fancying a real life guy, in the flesh. Sexual thoughts mean you're just growing naturally into a perfectly healthy young woman. With all the right bits, all working properly and doing what they're meant to do. That's really what all the talk of hormones and the like means. Don't get too loved-up and feel he's your destiny, love-at-first-sight and stuff though just because you're looking at him and feeling horny though will you? You might end up his girl, in his arms and having sex with him when you're ready...or you might look at a dozen more likely lads before you choose the lucky bloke. Have fun...and don't freak...you're not a huge pervert. I promise you.
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Hormones, such interesting things. So now you know what it's like to want and have to deprive yourself of what you want. There is absolutely nothing wrong if you thinking about sex, don't let your negative thinking effect this, you will become a much stronger women if you don't fill your thoughts like these. Remember that you need to keep these feelings in check, you don't need sex, or a baby getting in your way at 15, but don't carry unnecessary baggage about it either. People don't know what your thinking, but know that they have a general idea of where your at, so don't let them take advantage of that. Stay clear of anything that makes you lose control. Hormones are actually an old system that in many ways we don't need any more. It comes from way back in animal history, when we needed to be told when it was time to start having children. We know this now and can chose when we want to start to have children from a much wider time frame. Way back when our brains were small, we did not communicate, we worked on desires and chose our mates by looks, because how strong you looked and were, was important. And, there was a time that even that didn't matter, so who you matted with didn't matter. This is why you have those feelings, but there are many reasons why these things are no longer needed. Now the challenge is getting through these feeling and understanding we have much bigger brains now and there are many more reasons to consider when choosing a mate.
You have a lot of choices to make in your life to come and you have to live with those choices. Choose to make your life a good one. Be well
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I really should know better then to respond to these questions that aren't really questions. You asked 2 things, are you a pervert and is it okay to fuck some guy at 15 years of age, because you lust over him. So, you wanted to be told that you are a pervert and you should Fuck this guy and it has nothing to do with hormones. Well go right ahead and do what you want, you're not my daughter. Wake up little girl.
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