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IS this leading on someone?
so i gave this girl, a gift with a note attached to it. With my number and stuff. SO apparently she couldnt read my hand writing, so she searched for me for an entire day. I gave my number , when i met up with her. AND thats the beginning.
The middle,most of the people i that have seen this girl around me say that she was interested due to the fact that she came to see unnannounced and flirt with me like tease me about certain stuff, i kinda saw this and asked her out the first two times she agreed and , i asked if she was sure , she said yes . But due to her feeling sick and exams , we had to postpone, then later cancel. But she made up for it by spending almost every day with me until we had study break. Before i asked her out the third time , i disrespected her by asking her to spend time with me and by not speaking to her at the moment because my friends were around and when i told her i will talk to her tonight , i said i only asked you to come to bring me something thats why i asked you to come see me today. She got up and walked away and said dont bother text me tonight. Then i apologized and asked her out she said no and then told me i had no relationship experience and communication experience. And she isnt into quiet guys. And that she said she only agreed to go out with me because it was my b'day the first time and the second time it was just because she was nice
After like one week , she wanted to know how i was and asked about my holiday so far. ITS CONFUSING.Then like after a few times we spoke a couple more times for the month and even yesterday , when i initated the conversation , asking if she was ok, and then she build on the conversation asking about my holiday and and if i have a summer job. We really bonded and it felt like old times, it was like this even when she was sick and she still spoke to me asking how i am. And most people who are sick would have ignored texts. So i waited like a week and a half to text her . I asked if she is ok, she said she is stressed and she confided her problems with me , so i told her about my problem and made it funny so she could laugh and stuff. Which she did. So now school started back and she asked where i was and stuff. And she greeted me with a big hug and we spoke for like 5 mins before i had to go.
I even asked to spend time with her and stuff , saying i miss seeing ur beautiful face , she basically said yes.So when we finally had lunch, she brought a friend so i decided to wing it and be funny. It worked but it was just awful and it later showed when we were finish talking. Now after lunch, i asked her out and she said honestly i dont want to go out with you.
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No, this is not leading someone on.
Leading someone on is when you don't tell them the truth. She's told you the truth a few times now: She's not into you.
It's perfectly possible for someone to like you as a person, to enjoy speaking to you and be friendly to you, but not want to date you.
She's not into you like that. She's been pretty clear more than once, and it sounds like, she's tried not to be to mean about. Either you can accept her friendship, or you can choose to move on entirely and ignore her.
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