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Talking to a college acquaintance! (interested in him)
21/F
I'm a pretty outgoing person but I need help with a certain situation. My neighbors at my college campus are 7 guys, and one of them I met was *S*. I was NOT interested in S at all at the time. I thought he was cute, and that was that. I would run into him at the bar and say my hellos and then do my own thing. He even came to one of our house parties and started talking to me, but I was too tired to entertain so I introduced him to someone else and left.
Last month, my date for a date party formal had to work last minute so i was in need of a date pronto. My roommate suggested S (she knows him better than I do, though I wouldn't consider them good friends, either). I had no other option so I said yes and ended up having a great time--except for the fact that I blacked out for a lot of it... However, we kissed A LOT and made out A LOT, and all of my friends said we were very into each other. From what I can remember, he was a great date, and we had great conversation...(though probably after that I was not the best conversation holder). He invited me back to hang out but I declined, we said our good nights and went home.
Here's my dilemma. I am interested in him. This doesn't mean I like him, but I DO want to get to know him more. Unfortunately, we were just on Spring Break so I did not have the ability to see him a lot (SB was a week after the date event)....but that's just it. I rarely ever see him during the week, anyways. I'd occasionally see him at the bar during the year but nothing more. I want to get to know him/hang out with him but I don't want to be weird since I only ever really talked to him after taking him on that event. I'm afraid to text him because I don't want it to be weird...
Just need your guys' advice on how to deal with this! For some reason I'm really shy, and I think it's because this guy is more confident and outgoing than I'm used to!
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Well, my friend, it seems this is not so much a dilema as you thought. If he's the one who started talking to you, and he's the one who took you on a date to the party, then he is certainly intrested in you- or at least likes you enough to kiss you!
If you are intrested in him, I would show this by not rejecting him too much anymore. Of course, rejection now and again is all part of the "playing hard to get" game, but since youre shy, I would recommend building up the courage to just text him something like "Hey, whats up?" or maybe even just "yo!" .
If he doesnt reply and start a conversation, its not the end of the world now is it? :D good luck!
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