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I've gotten fingered about 4 or 5 times by my boyfriend. I'm 15 and a female..( I had a typo the last time I posted this. ) the first time it kind of hurt but I got over it plus it was through my leggings so the friction scratch me and stung when I peed. The second time it felt okay & stung A LOT when I peed. The third time it felt really good but hurt at the same time and the pain to pee was painful but bearable. The fourth time it felt good but when I saw his hand it was covered in blood I was really embarrassed. It stung a bit to pee but nothing to bad, I asked about 2 other questions wondering why it hurt and that it stinged to pee but now I'm back because I got fingered again today and there wasn't any blood noticable on his hand & it felt good I felt him deeper.. but I'm not sure if my hymen is broken? Maybe torn but idk. Well my underwear is covored in blood, why does it keep happening with all this blood? It stings a bit but not much its just uncomfortable. Please help.
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Thank you for writing us back and correcting the typo; I was very concerned you were being molested.
As to your question: The only person that can truly answer this question is your GYN. Now that you are having your periods you should be having yearly GYN checkups along with your yearly school physical.
I know you don't want mom to find out what you have been doing and she doesn't have too. Since you turned 14 you have by a law; known as HIPPA medical confidentiality.
This is a Federal Law which stands for Health Information Personal Privacy Act. Within this law is action specifically added by congress so young people like yourself could seek medical attention for their reproductive system without parental permission or knowledge.
The law provides for you to make appointments to see a doctor without parental knowledge or permission for anything related to your reproductive system. If your parents were to become aware of your visit to a GYN or any other doctor for treatment for a reproductive system. They would not be given any information. The Law gives you total privacy; only you can release this information to anyone and it must be in writing to your doctor. For a doctor to release privileged information without your permission the doctor is subject to loss of license, a $5,000 fine and a 5 year jail term.
If mom was to accompany you to the doctor she cannot be in the exam room with you. The doctor will not allow this without your permission. This entire section of this law was written this way so that young people would seek medical help when needed for their reproductive system and have the privacy and confidentiality to speak openly with the doctor. You can even request birth control medication, you do not need parental permission only your doctors permission and the doctor can only refuse for medical reasons.
You parent cannot force you to under go any exam or medical procedure you do not wish to have with one exception, that being a life saving procedure.
This means if you were to become pregnant the doctor could not tell them you are pregnant and when they find out if they find out, they cannot force you or stop you from having an abortion. That is your choice.
Your present problem requires a doctors treatment as your boyfriend may have scratched you or partially separated your Hyman. In either instance a doctor needs to check you and fix the damage.
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