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Weird behaviour of boys
Soooo basically, I liked this guy for a very long time and he knew. I sort of thought he liked me back because of all the blushing and staring ( he was extremely shy)but he had stopped talking to me because there were rumours he liked me back. but then this really close friend of mine asked me out..and I realized I had feelings for him too so I said yes to him. Later, the guy I had liked found out and he seemed shocked but was laughing and he randomly asked my bf about me in a teasing way. However, recently, like YESTERDAY, he began talking to me after FOUR months...like totally random and while he was talking ( it was about studies) he kept looking down, wouldn't meet my eye and kept smiling. What does this mean?
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For many people, there's something exciting about wanting something that you can't have. He may be doing this just because you're in a relationship. It's just one of those things. You do need to figure out if you want to be with your current boyfriend or him, though. Don't play games with these guys. If you really are interested in this other guy instead, figure out if he's interested in you too by ASKING HIM, and let your boyfriend go before things get too serious. If you're not interested in this other guy, then stop worrying about it. There will be people in this world that like you and people that don't. Your boyfriend likes you so why wouldn't others? It's not something you should react to or wonder about so much. Good luck! :)
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Soooo if you were truly happy with your current boyfriend why would you even care what this other guy thinks?
Before you look into this you need to decide which guy you like and want to be with-without basing it on who you think likes you the most.
It sounds like this other guy may have feelings for you, but like I said you shouldn't look into this too much as you are in a relationship with someone else are you not?
Also, you may be pouncing on every little thing this guy does and blowing it up to mean he likes you, because you want him to like you. And you want him to like you because you can't have him as you're in another relationship-we all want what we can't have.
Try to look at the 'signs' from a rational perspective, and if they still seem irrational then yeh the guy likes you.
But like I said-if you're happy with this new guy why care?
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